How Parents Can Help Their Kid's Team Fundraiser (Without Being Pushy)

Team fundraisers work best when families get involved, but most parents don't love asking people for money. The good news: with an online player page, you don't have to sell anything or knock on doors. Here's how to help your child raise money in a way that feels natural.

Start with the why

Kids fundraise better when they understand what the money is for. Sit down with your player and talk about it: the tournament the team wants to attend, the new uniforms, the scholarships that help teammates keep playing. When your child can explain it in their own words, every ask feels more genuine.

Make a list together

Spend 10 minutes writing down 15 to 20 people who would enjoy supporting your player:

• Grandparents, aunts, uncles and cousins
• Godparents and close family friends
• Neighbors who watch your kid grow up
• Former coaches and teachers (where appropriate)
• Your own close friends and coworkers who ask about your kids

You're not cold-calling anyone. These are people who already care about your child.

Let your player do the asking

A message from the player is far more effective than one from a parent. Depending on your child's age:

• Younger kids: Record a 10-second video of them saying what they're raising money for, and send it with the link.
• Older kids: Let them send texts themselves, with you reviewing the first one or two.

Our fundraising text templates give you ready-to-send messages you can personalize.

Share early

Players who share in the first few days of a campaign usually raise the most. Early gifts also build momentum: your player moves up the leaderboard, gets excited, and wants to keep going.

Use the QR code offline, too

Not everyone lives on their phone. Print a flyer with your player's QR code for:

• Grandma's fridge
• Your office break room (if it's allowed)
• A note tucked into holiday or birthday cards

Follow up once, kindly

People mean to give and then forget. One friendly reminder a few days later is normal and often appreciated. Two is the most you should send. If someone doesn't give, that's okay. Thank them for cheering your player on anyway.

Say thank you right away

When someone gives, have your player send a thank-you the same day. A quick text, a voice note or a short video is perfect. It teaches gratitude, and it's the best way to earn support again next season. On Kick For Good, you get an email every time someone gives to your player, so you'll know exactly when to say thanks.

Keep it fun for your child

• Focus on effort. Celebrate when your player sends their first texts, not just when they climb the leaderboard.
• Set a personal goal. "Let's try for 10 gifts" is more motivating than chasing the top spot.
• Talk about the team. Remind your child that every gift helps the whole team.

For more on keeping competition healthy, read why leaderboards work.

Privacy: what to know

Before you share, check what's on your player's page. On Kick For Good, the page shows your player's name, club and fundraising total. Photos, age group and school only appear if you turn them on, and birthdays are never public. You can change these settings anytime from your dashboard.

If your club still does the cookie dough sale

If your club is still running product sales, there may be an easier way. Send your club director this page. Kick For Good is free for clubs to start, every player gets a page and QR code, and families never have to handle orders or deliveries.